Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. The ability to masturbate is a divine blessing. But as with all things sexual, technique can make all the difference. For those of you with vaginas, I'm going to share a tip that will improve your masturbation game; it's one that lesbian and queer women like myself have known for a long time: Cut your damn finger nails.
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How to Finger Yourself [Make Yourself Cum]
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How to masturbate
After all, getting busy with your own bod can help you chuck unwanted inhibitions. Throw out any taboos or guilt surrounding masturbation right now. Pleasuring yourself has health benefits that go beyond the body — it can help untangle shame that affects confidence with yourself, partnered sex, or in a relationship. You may notice that stimulating in round patterns feels better than up and down, or that you enjoy stimulation using your inner labia over your clitoris rather than direct clitoral stimulation.
Can't get the hang of it, or hitting a masturbation rut? These masturbation tips will blow open your world of self-pleasure and change everything you thought you knew about how to masturbate. Okay, it's pretty likely that you've touched yourself before, even if just tentatively in the shower during that period of teenage exploration. That being said, plenty of women don't really know how to masturbate, let alone actually reach a full O on their own.